The Three Yudhishthiras in us
The Three Yudhishthiras in us

Rakshith Bhagavath

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Yudhishthira is not a single person: he is the king, the husband and the man. One person takes over the other two frequently and causes him trouble. And occasionally, there is a fourth one too. Is Yudhishthira a metaphor for you and me?

Yudhishthira is not a single person: he is the king, the husband and the man. One person takes over the other two frequently and causes him trouble. And occasionally, there is a fourth one too. Is Yudhishthira a metaphor for you and me?

The King in Yudhiṣṭhira is defined by the heavy burden of dharma and the protection of the populace. In this role, he is a ritual officer, a sacrificer who must create order through his speech and actions. However, this duty often overrides his personal desires, forcing him into a public life of pomp and policy that he frequently finds loathsome. His commitment to the "word" of a sovereign is so absolute that it leads him to accept the invitation to the disastrous dice game, where his identity as a King (the protector of the realm) is systematically stripped away.

As the Husband, Yudhiṣṭhira’s identity is uniquely shared; he is one of five husbands to Draupadī, a role that requires constant negotiation and restraint to maintain fraternal harmony. This role causes him significant trouble when his failure as a King, i.e., losing himself at dice, rendered him powerless to fulfill his primary duty as a husband: the protection of his wife from public humiliation. The guilt of this failure, and the searing reproaches Draupadī, his brothers, and his mother fling at him during their exile, remain a source of internal torment throughout the epic.

The Man within Yudhiṣṭhira is characterized by a "mild" nature that yearns for quiescence and renunciation rather than the violence of kingship. As a Man, he suffers from a very human addiction to gambling and a deep-seated despondency that threatens to paralyze his ability to lead. This private self is often at odds with his brothers and wife, who view his desire for a peaceful forest life as a "feeble" evasion of his warrior calling.

Occasionally, a fourth identity takes over: his divine essence as the partial incarnation of the god Dharma. This identity is that of Dharmaraja, a "witness" that perceives the ultimate reality beyond the senses. It is this persona that is tested by the Yaksha at the lake in the forest and that ultimately permits him to enter heaven in his physical body. However, this divine standard is a double-edged sword; when he utters a single human lie regarding Ashvatthama, it is his divine status that is visibly compromised, causing his chariot—once hovering in the air—to touch the defiled earth.

Yudhiṣṭhira is a metaphor for the human condition, representing the internal struggle to balance professional obligations, family ties, and private longings. Like us, he is caught in a "moral maze," where the pursuit of one identity often necessitates the betrayal of another. We all carry that quiet, internal moral compass that usually stands in silent, painful judgment of the compromises our other selves make in the world.

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